This week, I decided to reflect on the book, The Unlikely Disciple, and talk about how it relates to something that I went through in my life. The whole purpose of this book was that this college student named Kevin wanted to study abroad at Liberty, an evangelical college, instead of traveling to another country to do research. He attended Brown which was just a normal college with no big religion base. At Liberty, they had a lot of rules and their life was centered on God and the teachings of Christianity. Kevin went into the semester with an open mind, and even started to adapt to some of the teachings and part of the daily life. His family members were Quakers, so he was not use to that type of environment at all.
I can relate this to my life because my family is Catholic and I was baptized but that is where my religion life ended. We never really went to church or anything growing up so I didn’t even know anything about the religion really. I went to public schools pretty much all my life up until my sophomore year of high school. Second semester of that year I transferred to Heelan, the Catholic School in Sioux City. There were so many differences from what I had been used to and this is where I can relate to Kevin’s experience.
The reason that I initially had for transferring was for softball, not to experience the religious feel that Kevin was going for. I did go in with an open mind, because I knew that religion was a big part of the system. First off, we had to attend mass every week. I was not used to that at all since my family really never attended church except on special occasions such as Easter or Christmas. At the beginning of the day, end of the day, and at the beginning of almost every class we had to pray. There was a dress code that we all had to follow including certain clothing, hair, jewelry, shoes and those types of things which were also pretty strict at Liberty. Religion classes were required in the curriculum. It was way different than what I was accustomed to. The rules were also a lot stricter as were the punishments. An example would be if you were tardy only two times, you would get a detention. They weren’t messing around.
Like Kevin, I went into this new situation with an open mind. I was never big on religion. At first, I got sick of all the praying and going to mass but after a while I learned to enjoy it. I actually felt like I was getting something out of it. After I would leave mass, I noticed that my mood was lifted more than it was at the beginning. I felt like it made a difference in my life. The school, like Liberty, felt like a close community. Not everyone was friends with everyone, but there was a family type of feel between the teachers, faculty, and students. There were also those trouble makers, and the uptight students that Liberty had as well. At the end of the day, I really felt like going there did make a big difference in my life, not only athletically and academically, but also religiously. I learned a lot and I wouldn’t doubt the decision I made for a second. Now, like Kevin, I go to Morningside which is not really big on religion. There are opportunities for those who want it, but if you aren’t religious you wouldn’t even see a difference in the day to day life. There is still the party life, no dress code, no rules that boys and girls can’t touch or anything like that.
I am glad that we were assigned this book, because I could really relate to Kevin’s experience. It also allowed me to compare my situations to his, and also allowed me to reflect more on the changes that my life took on. Going to a religious school doesn’t necessarily mean you have to agree with everything that they believe and preach, but it is a good experience. That is probably the thing that Kevin and I had the most in common is that we experienced the ways of their religious lifestyle. Even though we questioned some of the beliefs, the experience is still there and we both carry with us what we learned and want to live our lives by.